Personally, I think this whole thing has gone too far. Your boyfriend and I disagree on the validity of digital photography as a medium vs. print photography. That's it. I actually rather like your artwork, especially Claddagh. It's great that you have access to a darkroom to develop your shots yourself. 99.99999999% of film photographers out there do not have such access. Most film photography that is dropped off at the local K-Mart or Wal-Mart and run with the special "Kodak Enhanced Processing" become digital pictures before they are printed, and are run through color/contrast/sharpness enhancements just like I use on my digital photos, only... the photographer has no say whatsoever in the final print... Like you, I spend quite a bit of time on the majority of my prints, until I have the shot exactly the way I want it. I bracket exposures two stops in each direction for the majority of my shots. My digital camera is generally set in either Aperture Priority or fully manual exposure mode (just like I used when I shot film).
I've seen outstanding work from pure film photographers, and I've seen utter garbage. I've seen outstanding work from digital photographers, and I've seen utter garbage. The same can be said for almost any medium. What's more important than the medium, IMO, is how much of yourself you put into your photos. What meaning is conveyed? For that, I point to your Claddagh photograph. Not only is it an excercise in depth of field, but it also conveys a very special message.
For me this entire argument has been expressly about whether or not
's photograph that was moved multiple times should have been moved. Your boyfriends position is that all digital photography should be under digital manipulation.
's position is quite contrary to this. Personally, I think all art should be categorized solely by subject, not by medium. That's my 2 cents.
I apologize for anything my wife may have stirred up here. I'm not interested in making enemies, I'm interested in showing and viewing art and making friends who share my love of art.